As Americans, we are taught that your destiny is in your own hands. You can decide if you will be a president or a prostitute, a doctor or a drug dealer, a senator or a construction worker.
But, is it really that simple? It is a nice thought. We have so much control over our own lives, and we can all be “self-made” men. And, if we fail? There is no one to blame, but ourselves. We did not work hard enough, or we are not clever or crafty or diligent enough.
In the 1970’s, there was an experiment that involved children, marshmallows, and delayed gratification. The gist of the experiment was to give the child a marshmallow and leave the child alone. The child was told if they did not eat the marshmallow, they would receive another marshmallow when the scientist returned, but if they ate it, they would not receive another. The study found that the children that waited to receive the second marshmallow were more successful in life. Those children had better paying jobs, and higher educations, leading the scientist to deduce that children with more will power would be more successful in life.
But, what is the rest of the story? Turns out scientists could not replicate the results of the 1970’s study. What they did find was socioeconomics was a driving factor on whether the children waited for the second marshmallow. Let me break that down for you: if the child came from a poor background, they did not wait for the second marshmallow, and those children became the less “successful” adults.
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